L.O.S.T

It has recently become a trend for one to describe his or her personal state of mind and emotion as lost. Funny part is that the solution to that person’s problems is definitely not finding them.

“Lost without you, can’t help myself...”

“I was lost, but now I’m found!”

And then what? You don’t help a lost cat by finding it, then why is it that you can help a human in that way. Have our emotional needs become so easily fulfilled that even the smallest gesture of kindness satisfies it, or in this case, the physical discovery of one’s existence?

“Eureka, I’ve found it”

Never mind the language lesson, people like to be found, and if I may add, found in the perfect form. Every girl dreams of ‘finding’ her perfect man, or in some cases, woman. And when she finds him or her, she has to be perfect! I have personally been through so many of the “NO HE CAN’T SEE ME I LOOK HORRIBLE” experiences, and for what? For finding out that ‘finding’ a person comes in the most coincidence when you are not ready.

Ever lost an earring that was right in front of you? Or never found that sock in the washer? Its either there in front of you or not, finding it is only a matter of perception and how what you see translate in your mind and heart.

It is commonly known that if you are lost, you should stay in one place until you’re found. So if you are lost, and looking, chances are you are just running around in a never ending maze.

Moral of the story: STOP LOOKING!